Dear singles, I know how hard it is to remain single in your mid or late 20s, I know how hard it is to yearn for the warmth, love, and support of a dear one and not get any, I know what it's like to go to an hangout only to discover that you are the only one sitting solo, and I know how hard it is to be addressed as MISS while most of your mates are now being addressed as MRS or MUMMY(their first child's name),
I know all this, and believe me it takes a strong, principled and disciplined human to pass through this stage amidst all the temptations and distractions and still come out clean and dignified. Still, I want you to know that in as much as you yearn to be in someone's arm, in as much as you yearn to be called someone's MAN OR WOMAN, and in as much as you yearn to be addressed as MRS,
do not ever push yourself into a relationship with someone who has nothing good to offer to your self growth, positivity and sensibility or Deen, talk more of him/herself, do not allow your desperation push you into a toxic and destructive relationship with AN ANIMAL IN HUMAN BODY, do not be the reason why your male/female friend has to divorce his/her partner, do not be a bane to the happy home of your friend,
do not selfishly envy the relationship of your friend, for whether you like it or not, that feeling of envy you see as WEIGHTLESS posses a strong ENERGY that can GRADUATE into the most DESTRUCTIVE form of HATRED, which can in turn lead to ENMITY, do not ever flirt with the spouse of your male or female friend for one day YOU WILL REAP WHAT YOU SOW, do not ever RIDICULE your SELF-RESPECT,
and TARNISH your DIGNITY by CROSSING the BOUNDARIES of FRIENDSHIP or taking ADVANTAGE of the rights of being a friend, do not ever be FOOLISH ENOUGH to LOOSE your SELF-RESPECT to such an extent that you FORCEFULLY seek SEXUAL GRATIFICATION from SOMEONE you are OLD enough to be called your DAUGHTER OR SON,
do not allow your being single be an avenue for you to mess up your life to such an extent that you will YEARN for a RESPONSIBLE and LOYAL SPOUSE all your life but WILL NEVER GET ONE, do not DO or SAY anything that you will LIVE to REGRET all through your LIFE as MARRIED man or woman, for the hard TRUTH about LIFE is that EVERYTHING WE DO NOW BE IT GOOD OR BAD WILL COME BACK TO US TOMORROW,
and most importantly understand that your being single DOES NOT mean you have a PROBLEM, it is not a BAD OMEN, and it is not a LIMITATION to your GREATNESS, or GROWTH but an INSPIRATION that should push you to be productive, Industrious, and fervently strive to be a better human BY DOING GOOD DEEDS AND HELPING THOSE AROUND YOU, for TOMORROW may be TOO LATE for you to DO those GOOD THINGS you have the TIME to DO now that you are SINGLE.
© Sakeenah'writes.
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