The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) called those men who allow their wives leave the house in makeup lipstick, perfume, indecently dressed, without the hijab and doesn't mind her shaking hands with the opposite sex (non-mahrams), a DAYYUTH( (Arabic: دَÙŠُّوث) a person who is apathetic or permissive with regards to unchaste behaviour by female relatives or a spouse.). He said that Allah will not look at him on the day of judgement and the DAYYUTH are mentioned among those three categories of people who WILL NOT enter Al-Jannah.
So, dear brethrens, ESPECIALLY the married ones, you should understand that it is obligatory upon you as an ideal husband to safeguard the chastity and dignity of your wife, drawing her away from fitnah, zinah, tabbaruj(display of adornment to attract the opposite sex), advising her against commiting Haram which Allah has forbidden, tell her to conceal her body which Allah has forbidden her to expose and enjoining her to do that which is good and halal in order to earn the ramah and pleasure of Allah for after her parents, her Al-Jannah lies at your feet brother.
Lastly, you should understand that being domineering or authoritative towards your wives or compelling her to do the halal never helps but only worsens the situation which is why, in order for her to exhibit that change or become that mashallah ZAWJAH, then it requires patience, Allah, love, Co-operation, sincere efforts. So, please do not relent for Allah sees your efforts and he's never going to disappoint you. May Allah make it easy. Ameen!
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